...Melissa. My oldest daughter. In Sophomore English the students received extra credit if the parents wrote a something to tell the teacher about their student. This is what I wrote. It still describes her best.

She Grew
Too fast and so soon.
From little toes and long dark curls, to tight blue jeans and midriff tops.
She grew.
She always liked dressing up, and always liked to play restaurant.
She ran with other girls her age, and tore the knees of jeans.
She grew.
I was afraid, for awhile, that the growing up would be the growing away; and for a time it seemed that way. But I have found a beautiful friend, a lovely young woman with whom I enjoy spending time.
She has a beautiful voice. She sings with abandon and with joy. She takes the gifts of God and brings comfort to the aches of this world.
I watch as she takes in all that the world has to offer and sorts and sifts and mines the gold and the jewels and that which is precious and doesn't let herself be taken in by that which is fake and fading. I cry as her heart breaks and thank God that her dreams never fade.
I am impressed that so often her first thought is not of herself but of others. That she seems not to take her blessings for granted, but instead seeks to bless those she holds close to her heart. She has an endless well of cheerfulness.
She stands now, with the world so large and all the possibilities before her and she does not tremble and seems not to be afraid. She knows who she is and knows where she belongs and at the same time does not profess to know it all.
She grew.
In faith.
In beauty.
In love.
In hope.
In peace.
In wisdom.
In self-control.
In my heart.
She grew.